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While I have been in the BDSM scene all of my adult life in one way or another, growing up and in my early adult life I was very confused by my submissive and masochistic nature, it was my secret taboo and I kept it hidden from everyone I knew while trying my best to repress it, I wanted to be "normal".
It took me a long time to understand that there is no such thing as "normal" and that everybody is different. Eventually I found my place but those days were a very turbulent time for me.
During that time I found great comfort in sites like BDSM Library where I could read about other people like me and indulge my wild fantasies. Eventually I started to write my own stories and publish them and took great pride from the fact that other people were enjoying my perverted mind.
Writing, both fiction and my biopoic blog became a hugely important outlet for me over the following years and through it I ended up meeting some of my closest friends and eventually my wife Fiona.
So it was with great sadness that I discovered the BDSM Library had stopped being updated in April 2017, and after a year went by with no updates I decided to do something about it. I had done a little web design in my spare time and started to teach myself the skills needed to create a website like BDSM Library and in August 2018 I launched the first version of Fet Library.
The site was fairly basic but it was a start, and over the years it has evolved through numerous iterations to become what it is today.
My hope is that the site will continue to provide a platform for authors to post their creations and for people to enjoy them for years to come.
Lois xx
p.s. If you are interested and would like to know more about my journey, my blog is still available at www.painslutlois.com.